THE THORN IN OUR SIDE

Here’s how this week’s arts and culture column begins:

The older I get, the more deeply I ponder the axiom that there’s a little bit of bad in the best of us, and a little bit of good in the worst of us.

That we can exercise incredible nobility of spirit in one area — and incredible sloth, or blindness, or pride, or ongoing compulsive behavior, in another — is an ongoing mystery.

I think of Bill W., the co-founder of Alcoholics Anonymous, whose lifelong addiction to nicotine led to the emphysema that killed him. Married for 53 years to the faithful Lois, a union that by all accounts bore abundant fruit, Bill nevertheless had a complicated emotional life that included deep relationships, at the very least emotional, with at least two other women.

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5 responses to “THE THORN IN OUR SIDE”

  1. Melisa Avatar
    Melisa

    I love this reflection! I’ve been pondering the words of St. Paul – “My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness” – and that about the thorn in the side. I think there’s a lot of truth in what you write. Try as we may to be rid of certain imperfections, it may be those very imperfections that draw someone closer to Christ through us. They certainly make us more real and relatable, and therefore more credible. God can use anything for His purposes.
    Also, I loved a couple of Mother Mary Francis’s books. I read her Come, Lord Jesus for Advent, and Strange Gods Before Us a couple years ago. Which of her works has the quote that you included in this? I hope you have a blessed and fruitful Lent!

    1. HEATHER KING Avatar
      HEATHER KING

      Thanks so much, Melisa,yes and yes! The Mother Mary Francis quote I got from a recent Magnificat reflection, and didn’t have the presence of mind to note the source, so sorry! You could try googling a phrase or two from it and might find it that way…

  2. Michele Cohen Avatar
    Michele Cohen

    Brilliant!! Much to ponder as always. Thanks so much.

    1. HEATHER KING Avatar
      HEATHER KING

      Michele! Feels so strange not to meeting on a Saturday morning…thrilled to have you as a reader, and that you liked the post…

  3. Michele Cohen Avatar
    Michele Cohen

    Yes, I miss our meetings. Trying to keep up the writing schedule and I love to read your writing.

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